What would you do first?

Everyday situations with friends, in groups and at work, and in Korea. Take a short quiz and look back at your choices.

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Two people’s hands around iced coffees at a window table

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Four situations between friendsDinner plans, a late reply, a tired friend, an earlier meeting. Pick what you would do first.4 questions on your own, or 12 or 16 each with a friend
Eight situations with groups and at workGroup chats, trips and shared projects: eight situations with several people involved.8 or 16 questions
How you communicateDo you ask when things are unclear? Raise awkward topics first? Answer from what you actually did over the past three months.Choose 36, 58 or 120 questions
Everyday life in Korea: how would you respond?A delivery running late, a vague “Let’s grab a meal sometime,” and other everyday moments from life in Korea.Choose 18, 36, 44 or 52 questions
Reading the fine print: a six-question quizIn a group notice or a short reply, what do you actually know, and what are you only guessing?6 questions
Make your own festival storyA small festival in a new neighborhood. Pick how your day starts and one thing to carry, and get an ending of your own. Just for fun.2 questions

A closer look at the four friendship situations

Each situation in the friendship quiz has its own page on how the four options differ and what you might ask a friend.

What the friendship quiz shows you

A short name for the option you chose
One sentence describing that choice
What is still open after that choice
One question you could ask a friend

Read, but not answered

Give it until morning

Your choice: You chose to wait until tomorrow morning without another message.
Still open: The plan remains open while you wait; you can decide when to check before the deadline.
A question to ask a friend: When you’re slow to reply, would you rather I ask again, ask when you can answer, or wait until a time we agreed?

In the friendship quiz, this is the card you get for choosing to wait until morning when a reply is late.

How the quizzes work

What this is not

Nothing here sorts you into a type or scores you against anyone else. A handful of choices cannot tell anyone who you are or how a friendship is going, and these quizzes do not try to. They are not a medical or psychological assessment.

Apart from the reading quiz, no option is marked as more mature or better than another. The reading quiz does have right answers, and each one can be found in the text itself.

Your answers stay in this browser

Your choices and your result are put together in your browser, on this page. Nothing is sent to a server or saved, so closing or reloading the page clears them.

These quizzes are meant for adults aged 19 and over.